We often mention that we’re students of life, that it’s a lifelong learning and that when we’ve dealt with one difficult thing the next will appear, and so on. There’s truth in that, and I feel humble to say that I will always be open to widening my perspective. But, what I often hear in these statements and words is a fundamental lack of trust in life, in what’s possible. There’s something in there that enables us to keep suffering, to stay on the safe, sleepy side and to rest in the idea that we don’t have to flourish and that it’s normal for life to be hard. I’m here to say that there’s a different way of looking at it. And that frankly, anything is possible. Constantly. For all of us. Things can change, alchemise, turn upside down and transform in a way we’ve never thought possible. The hard and heavy times are in no way a prediction of our future. Unless we choose them to be. Once we choose differently we can look forward to true transformation.